Is it wrong to love TO MUCH TO YOUR HUSBAND?

me and my husband been together for 2 years a nd half.but for a year,, we are far each other,bec, of his work,,his in army,and evryday,, i always tell him i love you, and i love him very very ,much sometimes,i think negative about him, bec, of my love for him,, so i always tell him, that hope he wont leave me bec i am scared that he will do that,coz, i love him very very much, and sometimes i compare him to other people who hurt there wife,, now my question,IS THAT VERY BAD TO LOVE TOO MUCH? OR IS IT BAD THAT I COMPARE HIM TO OTHER PEOPLE?I AM JUST SCRED THAT HE WILL DO THE SAME THING LIKE WHAT OTHER DID TO THERE WIFES,,